Jeremy Taylor on the duty of parents toward their children
Monday, July 26th, 2010
Jeremy Taylor (1613-1667)
TODAY we commemorate St Anne, mother of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
Traditions surrounding Mary’s birth and parents have come down to us from the so-called Protevangelium of James, which dates from around the middle of the second century AD, and in which we hear for the first time the names Joachim and Anna (Anne).
Rarely referred to in the English Reformers’ “golden era” of the first six centuries of the Church Fathers, it was regarded with a degree of suspicion (e.g. St Augustine, 354-430, Contra Faustum Bk XXIII §9).
Chastened by the flights of fancy in late Mediaeval speculation, few Anglican Divines set much store by these accounts either, save for the names Joachim and Anna.
It is, perhaps, a day for musing on parenthood, in which we must suppose Joachim and Anna were proficient.
In the following passage, Bishop Jeremy Taylor (1613-1667) speaks of the supreme importance of inculcating Christian principles by gaining a child’s trust.
“FATHERS, provoke not your children to wrath” (Eph 6:4): that is, be tender-bowelled, pitiful, and gentle, complying with all the infirmities of the children, and in their several ages proportioning to them several usages, according to their needs and their capacities.
“Bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord:” that is, secure their religion; season their younger years with prudent and pious principles; make them in love with virtue; and make them habitually so, before they come to choose or to discern good from evil, that their choice may be with less difficulty and danger: for while they are under discipline, they suck in all that they are first taught, and believe it infinitely.
Provide for them wise, learned, and virtuous tutors, and good company and discipline, seasonable baptism, catechism, and confirmation. For it is a great folly to heap up much wealth for our children, and not to take care concerning the children for whom we get it; it is as if a man should take more care about his shoe than about his foot.
“Parents must shew piety at home” (Heb 12:9); that is, they must give good example and reverend deportment in the face of their children; and all those instances of charity, which usually endear each other, — sweetness of conversation, affability, frequent admonitions, all significations of love and tenderness, care and watchfulness, — must be expressed towards children, that they may look upon their parents as their friends and patrons, their defence and sanctuary, their treasure and their guide.










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